It's just weird...

Not too long ago, this conversation transpired between me and my gf.

GF: Hey look! (reads the back of a perfume bottle) No wonder smell so fruity, so many fruits in there for ingredients..

Me: (took a look at the bottle) huh?

GF: See, got grapefruit and ......... ok... just grapefruit.

Me: (shakes my head, but not surprised at the reaction) Ok, so ya, it's too fruity for me.. let's look at something else.


I was just thinking, assumptions of this nature happens almost every other minute. Maybe it's just human nature to blurt out words with the least minimal information sent to their heads. It's just a slip.

So there I was thinking, why is it that when friends say things which obviously don't make sense or they don't mean, we let it go and laugh it off? But why can't we react the same to the men we like? Because they are "supposed" to be treating us nicer than our friends? So if that's the case, why are we not treating them better than our friends, forgiving them for these slightest of the slightest mistakes and slips, instead of throwing a tantrum that's bigger than the issue itself?

Question: Why can't we let go of slips that our men made, when we can do so to our friends? So do our friends matter more, or our men?



PS:I know this entry doesn't make much sense to many, so unless you can fully understand it, don't ask me about it. Because I know exactly what I am writing about.